Problem is, what most so-called audiophiles call "quality" is that which cannot be heard and does not exist, except on the sticker price. I don't want to pay $1500 for a set of "quality" speakers, I'll gladly settle for a "crap" $300 computer surround system and get all the bells and whistles included such as DD/DTS decoder, etc, plus excellent sound quality to boot.
You are mixing two separate domains of technology. Don't.
Sure, you're not going to want any "real" (=traditional) hi-fi components with your computer system. You wouldn't want to implement in-car audio system with such equipment either, or vice versa. It's a matter of usage environment, usage requirements and usage expectations.
Thus, your rave about audiophilia is on an invalid foundation. Sure, when it comes to high-end weirdness, some pretty ridiculous stuff comes up, but I will personally guarantee that an entry-level (1000-2000€) "traditional" hi-fi setup for sane persons with properly selected components and appropriate room setup will sound better than an all-in-one department store "home cinema set" (~500€) in a blind test, even for your ears. Of course, it's also more expensive, but I've also heard of some really screwed-up guys who spend such amounts of money on computers believing it will improve their lives...
But, to me the sensible aspect of real audiophilia is that it should be based on personal test experiences, not on advertising, pretty pictures or plastic finishing. It's a difference in values, so no reason to get overly stressed of each other's opinions.
If you do not understand why audio quality is important or what makes up the quality, it's all right. There's plenty of things in the world for each of us to not understand.
And a disclaimer: No, I don't regard myself as a true audiophile. I have rather inexpensive equipment myself. However, listening to some other people's setups live does give me a feeling of genuine envy.