How to make friends with girls?
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Vysez said:
Are your feet hot? If so, that's the flames of perdition licking at them already, you evil bastard.
Vysez said:
actually, i never see any frat guys. the girls just all go to UNT for the parties. I've never had the opportunity to go to any parties so haven't met anyone from UNT aside from the occasional guy that girls sometimes parade through the lounge late in the evening before trotting off to her room with him (or seeing them leave the next afternoon... but they don't say much then).
Is it just me, or wouldn't being in a college full of girls none of whom put out in your direction (whilst simultaneously working their way through the rest of the local male population) be much, much worse than being in a college half full of women (none of whom, etc.) plus half full of men, who are at least people one can go out and get shit-faced with to forget that you're Not Getting Any(TM)?
I dunno, but I just wonder if being surrounded by women all the time sometimes isn't all it's cracked up to be
I dunno, but I just wonder if being surrounded by women all the time sometimes isn't all it's cracked up to be
nutball said:Is it just me, or wouldn't being in a college full of girls none of whom put out in your direction (whilst simultaneously working their way through the rest of the local male population) be much, much worse than being in a college half full of women (none of whom, etc.) plus half full of men, who are at least people one can go out and get shit-faced with to forget that you're Not Getting Any(TM)?
I dunno, but I just wonder if being surrounded by women all the time sometimes isn't all it's cracked up to be
well first of all i've never been one to go get shit-faced anyhow. Do you know what I do on thurs (no classes on friday), friday, and saturday nights? I study / do homework. I don't have time to go out and party. But, it really is fantastic- all of the guys there (except for myself and the creepy freaks) are always going to parties and getting laid.
It's just the guy who'se like 33 and just got out of prison for being like a huuuuuuuge crackhead and is trying to turn his life around now, the guy who has some kind of social retardation and is like the creepiest person you've ever met (seriously, i was alone in the elevator once and it stopped and he and this girl got in, i was pretty much in the back corner of the elevator and her eyes light up with hope when she sees me, she walks straight to the back and just kind of squeezes in between me and the wall, noone says anything and creepy guy just sort of glares at me), and the guy who SEEMS normal at first... he chewshis food with his mouth wiiiide open, he is always offering "massaaaages" to girls (who keep turning him down but sometimes he just starts in without asking), people catch him in the act often several times a day, and he casually reaches his hand down the front of his pants, scratches, then sniffs his fingers for a long time in front of everyone (although he is usually discreet enough that somehow almost noone notices). And then there's me- really hot (I don't think I am but I keep hearing that people think I am), huge penis (i thought it was small, turns out i'm a good 1.5-2 inches longer than I thought... and there have been comments made...
), and I'm fvcking rich... BUT, I am just lacking some social functions that allow people to interact on certain levels. Those are the guys that AREN'T getting anything (of course, I'm not including the gay guys because they're not getting any from the girls... but they're definitely getting some!)Deepak said:I am 25, time is running out for me.
But in recent past twice I met girls who I felt I was getting attracted to. I wanted to speak to them, first girl boards the same bus as mine, many times I wanted to speak to her but couldn't
Then few days ago I met another girl at a conference, fortunately I was asked to coordinate work with her. I spoke with her many times. Then on the last day I wanted to ask her, her email add or cell no but I again faltered. I couldn't. Actually it was always at back of my mind, what if she refused, or if she took it wrongly (ours is still a conservative society). I was confused hence couldn't do it again. Though she may get shifted to our office later, so there is still hope.
What to do? Any tips? Keep in mind that I live in a conservative society. Help me. Should I take one step at a time and not rush into things.
I am afraid I don't know enough about Indian culture to help you out there. All the people I know from that region met their significant other through family or friends.
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stay away from girls! you may be happier alone (worth considering). (contrary to what 'they' tell you). the rules are all twisted to your disadvantage these days. you are forced into servitude (or else).
and they're not "sugar and spice and everything nice" (like 'they' say). they're quite stinky. why else do you think they spend so much time with primping.
the biochemical reaction they call 'love' from the hypothalmus is TEMPORARY. it's a trick. it wears off and you wonder how the hell you got into this.
they are money wasting machines as well. cards...drapes...knick knacks...shoes, hair, clothes all manner of worthless expenditures.
and they're not "sugar and spice and everything nice" (like 'they' say). they're quite stinky. why else do you think they spend so much time with primping.
the biochemical reaction they call 'love' from the hypothalmus is TEMPORARY. it's a trick. it wears off and you wonder how the hell you got into this.
they are money wasting machines as well. cards...drapes...knick knacks...shoes, hair, clothes all manner of worthless expenditures.
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Ain't that the truth.
Deepak, why not just ask her out casually to dinner or a movie or something else?
I mean what kind of signals is she sending you? Is she interested at all? Is she giving the impression she likey ?
Read the book 'The game' By Neil Strauss. Highly amusing read on pickup artists, it also contains a ton of tricks on how to approach women and perk their interest. Things I do all the time without thinking, they make explicit. (Like what they call 'neging' a female, you give her a comment that irratates her like 'oh you have lipstick on your teeth' and then ignore her for 3 minutes or so. Attractive women hate this and its unusual to them, so naturally they are already kinda paying attention)
Seduction is almost a science to these guys, its hilarious.
Learn party tricks too, stuff to talk about that keeps everyone focused on you. Obviously confidence is the key here
Seduction is almost a science to these guys, its hilarious.
Learn party tricks too, stuff to talk about that keeps everyone focused on you. Obviously confidence is the key here
